Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Summer warmth during a winter storm

I had this draft done back in Oct. since I didn't get to post it during the summer I thought I'd save it for winter...and after seeing Jeni's blog it reminded me of it. Thank you Jeni.

Just reflecting back to summer after all this snow. Here are some pictures to warm you up.
We bought the boys a season pass to Classic Waterslides while the Najdawi's were here.

Hudson and Caden

Zane and Skrapper


The "Big" slide


And what would we do without the Summer Fun Program? I love the Rec center's activities for kids throughout the year. (Hudson's in the middle.)Here's Skrap and all the kids his age. Just the color of their shirts reminds me of a lime popsicle. Brrr that is actually making me cold just looking at them.

Scott, Logan and Jacob.
Skrapper helping Brody get the movie started.

Looking outside, it's hard to imagine it ever being warm enough to sit outside on the grass and watch a movie without a jacket on.
But I'm not giving up, it will happen. I just wish sooner than later!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Christmas Eve and Morn

No, the Rec center isn't our favorite place to have family parties. It's just that no one wants to host the Christmas Eve get together at their house now that our families are getting so big. I like having them at someone's home because it seems so much more cozy. If we had a larger home I'd definately hold it there. The plus side of the Rec center is we get to play basketball (lightning was my favorite) and that the kids get to run around like crazy and no one is left cleaning up their messing house Christmas Eve. Yah! Santa and Mrs. Claus are here!

Logan was ornery and cried and wouldn't sit on Santa's lap. Gram and Pop

Great Grandma Chris showing her Diamond clip (dime and clip) she always where's on Christmas Eve.

Paige

Rice family

Tierra and my mom Parks as a wiseman, Hazel as baby Jesus as Great Grandpa Chris recites Jesus' birth

Logan as a sheep and Hudson was Joseph

Tierra was the famous Star
Christmas Morning
Hudson got a new Steeler's jersey. The one Santa brought him 4 years ago just doesn't fit anymore for some reason!

Tierra and her digital video/camra

Logan's toes getting run over by his remote control car.

Skrapper got his Nintendo DS he was hoping for.

And finally Santa must have thought Hudson is responsible enough for the BB gun he keeps asking for. Then we head up to Pop's for his famous Kiloti's breakfast.

And don't forget the annual cousin picture taking feat by Gram's fireplace. What an ordeal...but luckily everyone is facing forward. That is a miracle in itself.

We got a lot of board games for Christmas if anyone wants to play! Some of our favorites are Kahootz, Doodle Dice and Blokus. It's 3 days later and my house is still a mess as if it was Christmas morning! But that's OK. Now we are looking forward to a week of fun with the kids- movies, eating out, sledding, bowling and temple square are some of the activities on our agenda before school starts again. Happy Holidays!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

It was a Christmas Miracle

I took Parks to Primary's in Ogden on Tuesday to get his cast cut off and a new one put on. On the way there he told me he didn't want to have to wear a cast on Christmas. I told him he could do anything in his cast that he could without it. He has been very good not to complain.

Julie cut it off with the "cast saw" which Parks said the vibration tickled him. When Julie stretched him she realized he was already at a 20 degree angle without really pushing him. He was at a 10 the first time she casted and a normal persons flex is 25 degrees. She really couldn't hope for any better. She brought in another PT for a second opinion and she too said he didn't need another cast. He was scheduled for at least 2 more! Parks was thrilled. That was the best Christmas present Julie could have given him. He promised (and I did too) to wear his DAFO every day and his night splint every night. He has done that and they don't bother him as much because of how loose his heel cord is.
Parks always says his prayers that his arm and leg will get better. We know the CP won't just disappear, but for little things like this to happen means his prayers are being answered. Now he can fit in his winter boots to play in the snow!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008


What could be a better way of spending a day, than at the temple during the Christmas holiday break?! Larry's brother Cory and Paige and Cameron are here from Texas. So we took Cam, Tierra and Abby to do baptisms. Nolan and Diane were working in the baptismal rooms so it was wonderful to be all together. I haven't done baptisms myself in a long time, so it made me excited to extract family names and do their work myself. I've been thinking how neat it would be to spend the day and do the work from start to finish. I think that will be my one of my goals this coming year.

It's a blizzard out there. I't makes me so excited for Christmas. I'm going to put some Christmas music on and wrap presents while the boys are at the Rec. Center. I probably won't be blogging until after Christmas, so...

Merry Christmas everyone!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

School Projects

From Kindergarten crafts to 9th grade science projects is a big gap! Like this is news to anyone. I happened to be able to help out all 3 of my kids with some project this week. I love going to Kindergarten centers because you get to help your own child and also get to know all the other children in class too. Then they get bigger and you end up volunteering just to help out a few in the class and don't get to see your own kids and don't get to know many of the others names either. I feel bad when kids say "Hi Mrs. Birt" and I don't even recognize them. Mostly girls because my boys don't have them over to play, but they all know I'm Hudson's mom.
Here's Parks' Gingerbread man that was the center I was helping with. They turned out so cute. His nose even smells like cinnamon. YUM.

All parents were invited to come help their child make a gingerbread house built around milk cartons. I wish I had taken my camra to the class room because each house was so different. One of Hud's friends had built a hotel! I think it's because we spend too much time in hotels during baseball tournaments. :) Hudson really wanted to eat his! Parks also brought home a gingerbread house that they did in centers on the opposite week that I volunteer.

Then Thursday night I find out Tierra has a Science project due Friday and we don't have anything to make it with. We weren't alone. We ran into other parents at Michaels, 8pm mind you, and the cashier told us so a lot of kids had come through the line that night with similar supplies. Most were using styrofoam spheres for their planet, but when I saw the price of half a sphere for $6.99 or a glass bowl for $3.99 that did it for me. T's planet was Jupiter which is the largest so the glass bowl fit the image. We stuffed it with colored tissue paper and used crushed graham cracker for the astroid belt. Tierra still had to type her report and we were up till midnight finishing this project.

I'm not in school anymore. I've paid my dues. I've graduated. I shouldn't have to be doing this stuff. :D I think I'll store this and pray that Hudson gets the same planet and we'll be done.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Cerebral Palsy (CP)

Parks Anderson at 3 weeks old taken by Kim Libby

I'm sure a lot of people will have questions when they see Parks in a cast so hopefully this will clear things up.
Even though we've lived in South Weber since Parks was born there are still many people that don't know Parks has CP. Luckily he has a mild case so it isn't noticeable unless you've seen him try to use his fine motor skills with his left hand. And if you watch carefully you might notice a slight limp. Most people don't understand what CP is. It happens when the brain suffers from a lack of oxygen (like a stroke) and leaves a scar on the brain. Parks suffered a stroke inutero. The doctors and I have no idea why. Usually it occurs when you have a serious accident while pregnant, a long difficult delivery, or if you go into early labor. I had none of the above. Parks was actually 9 days overdue and I got started because I didn't want to be in the hospital over Easter (which I regret) because I like surprises. It was a smooth delivery. I checked in at 5pm and had him by 10pm. At 9 months we noticed he couldn't "patty-cake". He was misdiagnosed the first time, with nerve damage in his shoulder that could be fixed with therapy, but I pointed out to his occupational therapist (OT) that I believed it affected his leg as well and she sent us for an MRI and that is when they found that he had suffered from a stroke. We were afraid he wouldn't be able to walk but he did at 22 months.
CP does not affect the fuction of the brain mentally. Parks is as smart as any 5 year old. In Parks case it only affects the muscles on his left side. Some kids are affected in all 4 limbs. Depending on the size and location of the scar depends on the severity of CP they have. Parks has "spasticity" which means increased muscle tone, or stiff muscles. Some sensory nerves send the wrong message to the brain. The brain does not get the message to tell the muscle to relax.

Parks' therapists have always loved his pleasant attitude. He has always been a happy boy and very willing to do anything. They are amazed at how active he is and how well he plays sports etc. So having a sports fanactic for a father is a good thing in this case. His therapists say their own kids aren't as active as Parks and I've seen many kids without CP who can't swing a baseball bat, catch a football or shoot a basketball as well as Parks can. :) At the after school dodgeball intramurals, Parks would often catch balls (with one arm) thrown at him by 5th grade boys and get them out. The highlight of his day!
CP is not curable. We take him to therapy to get ideas of how to stretch him and keep his muscles active so they won't shorten or lose more movement over time. Because those muscles aren't used like his other side, his left arm and leg are skinnier and a little shorter.
I have never taken any pictures of Parks in therapy over the past 5 years, which I regret so I took my camra to document him getting his cast on. His physical therapist (PT) Julie, said she didn't get any pics of her son having his tonsils out and regrets it so I'm glad I remembered my camra.
Last Friday Parks made his 8th trip down to Primary Children's. This was his 3rd time to get Botox shots in his left arm and leg. Botox (as a lot of women might know) is used to relax your muscles. So in Parks case Botox helps relax his tight muscles in his arm and leg so he can get a better stretch during therapy and use his muscles easier to hopefully develop knew paths to his brain. But it is only a temporary, lasting about 4 months. So we do extra therapy and really stretch him well during this time. Parks' PT said his heel cord was so tight that she wanted to "serial cast" him. She stretches his foot (toe towards his shin) as far as it will go and casts it. Then every week we go back and she stretches it a few more degrees and casts it again to help elongate the muscle. Hopefully he will only have to do that 3 times and will be out of his cast just after Christmas break. And I have to add, he didn't even cry or need to be held down. He had 4 shots and they are pretty painful. Even Dr. Gooch and the nurse commented how wonderful it is to have someone like Parks who is cooperative. He has been their best patient in a very long time. Just that day they had a teenage girl who was out of control.
Julie told Parks to come up with an interesting story to tell people of how he broke his leg. He has a few. So if you ask him don't think he doesn't know the real reason he is wearing it, it just makes being in a cast a little bit more fun for him.

No, Parks is not happy to have a cast on. He says there are a lot of things he can't do with that dumb thing on, like run. But would you know it, he was running all over at his basketball game just a few hours after getting it on last night! Nothing really stops him. He'll have to have a sponge bath till it's off and I advised him not to go to recess (which makes him the saddest), but I'm afraid of him slipping on the ice or getting it wet. Yet he has a good attitude and is always smiling. I love my Skrapper!

Today he has show and tell and he is going to show his cast and let his friends sign it. Here is Parks signing his own cast right after getting home. The rest of the family had their turn also.

Here is a picture of his DAFO (leg brace) he is suppose to wear daily but I feel bad for him and don't make him wear it all the time, which is suppose to help him walk flat footed. I also have to buy 2 pair of the same shoe in different sizes in order for him to be able to wear his DAFO. Also a picture of his night splint that he should wear to bed to stretch his heel cord. Not comfortable obviously and he usually wakes up in the night with cramps and takes it off. We've had to get him fitted for several of these as he grows and they look really cheap, just plastic and velcro but they are expensive! And yes he does get to pick the color and design on the strap and for some reason he always ends up with yellow, which is not his favorite color. Next time I'll try to convince him to pick a dark blue which wouldn't be so eye blinding. ha ha

Simple things that we take for granted like walking heel-toe, supination (turning your palm face up) and picking something up between your thumb and forefinger are impossible for Parks to do on his left side. While using his right arm or hand while concentrating on something like writing or running causes his left hand and arm to contract. That is why his left arm is usually bent at the elbow. His left torso muscles are also affected which causes him to not have as great of balance as he should. Therefore he doesn't enjoy swinging on a swing or rides at Lagoon.

While we were at Primary's, Dr. Gooch talked to us about Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy (SDR). (I feel like I'm back at IRS with all this abbreviated lingo!) It is a surgery that involves snipping nerves on the spinal cord that are sending the wrong signal to the brain. And another procedure to help his arm. I was in tears because I didn't think anything like this was possible and expected him to wear a DAFO for the rest of his life. We have to wait until the Botox wears off (in April) and we'll meet with several experienced PT's at Primary's who will evaluate him. He will then be evaluated at Shriners to see if he would be a good candidate for this surgery. I am getting my hopes up over something that may not happen, but I can't help but to pray that it will work for Parks. I want him to gain more use of his arm more than anything. I have researched SDR on line and there are parents whose children have had the surgery and are willing to share their stories. It is sooo exciting!
Parks' having this trial has made me appreciate everything just a little bit more. Never take anything for granted and be thankful for what you can do because it could be worse. And I know as well as Parks knows that he will be made perfect in heaven!

P.S. Parks went to recess today, he stayed on the pavement and played tether ball with Cade, Milan and Jonah. Yah! his cousin now goes to his school. See there is nothing that can stop this kid. Now if only we could find a snow boot to fit over his cast, he really wants to play in the snow.

Monday, December 15, 2008

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

Sunday's snowfall really made it feel like Christmas is right around the corner. The boys wanted to go out in the snow while Larry snow-blowed. So much effort getting 3 boys in socks, snow-suits, boots, gloves, coats and hats. All before getting ready for church too. No wonder we're always late. I have no concept of time.

Eating the snow.
Skrapper the "tough guy"
Cleaning the snow off the trailor.
Then after dinner we made our traditional sugar cookies that I had for Christmas growing up.Mrs. Claus' helpers.




Logan was dying to spread frosting with his fingers. One color for each hand and each finger needed a turn.

Ho Ho Ho Eat up!

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Breakfast with Santa

It has been an annual tradition for our family the last 3 years, to eat breakfast at the Rec Center. We enjoy hot pancakes, bacon, and eggs, participate in the candy cane hunt, bounce on the blow up toys and watch Santa come in on the South Weber firetruck. Tierra doesn't have any interest in waking up and getting ready that early on a weekend unless there is talk of going to the mall! (Sorry for the fuzzy pictures, I must have had my greasy bacon fingers on the lens.) The adult Augers are in New York right this moment, but their babysitters brought the little Augers to breakfast. So we wanted to prove to mom and dad that they were there. Gunny was a little gun shy when they opened the dance room door and the little kids started screaming and running to find candy canes. ??? He is overly sensitive. So I had to walk in with him and help him collect them so he could turn them in for toys, because if I didn't I knew he'd be fighting his brothers for their prizes.

Skrapper in line for his prize. He got play dough, Logan got cars, Hudson got 3 things, I don't know why, a water slingshot, chocolates, and a plastic gun that shoots balls. Hudson had a good time with his friend Jackson on the slide. I missed a good picture of Parks and his friend Matthew and another boy all tied up together coming down. Logan doesn't dare go on these. Even though now looking at these pictures, Logan tells me he went down twice and wants to see the picture I took of him. Maybe he did, when I wasn't looking.

Hudson and Matthew.
Logan wants a robot with 5 legs (?)

"I want a Indiana Jones' legos."

"I've been a good boy!"

"I want a BB gun." Hudson is still longing for one. This is the first Santa that hasn't told him "You'll shoot your eye out". We watched Christmas Story last night, our family favorite.

"I've been pretty good all year."
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!